Tears. Tears. Tears. Thatâ€™s most of girlsâ€™ choice when their boyfriends break up with them. Is it necessary? Of course not. Love is a war. One wins and one loses. Tears can never help. Breaking up with you is your boyfriendâ€™s choice. However, you, my lady, can totally change the situation. Getting back boyfriends is your urgent stuff. If you are really into him, then go and get him back. If you are not so quite into him, also get him back first and then dump him by yourself this time.
Anyway, no matter which is up to your mind, the first thing you have to do is to get him back. And here is some tactics.
Man is kind of inferior. He tries to get every opportunity to prove himself. When breaking with you, he is going on a transition from life with you to life without you. That means, at the very beginning of breaking up, he still doesnâ€™t get used to the life without you and still wants you to contact him to show he is indispensable in your life. In that case, you should make sure there’s no calls, no messages, no e-mails, not anything about you that he can receive. Thatâ€™s what the word â€œinvisibleâ€ means. You have to act like you had never been in his life no matter how much you miss him. Donâ€™t call because that just enhances his pride of success in breaking up with you. Donâ€™t ask reasonsall for breaking up because he will never tell you the truth if he doesnâ€™t want to.
Man is kind of unconfident. They like making decisions, but they are never sure whether they make a right one. So after you are invisible for a while, the moment he is wondering why you donâ€™t ask him to stay, you could show up in his life all of a sudden. You should give millions of hints indirectly to show how good you’ve been since you left him. Posting amazing photos of you or telling others how sweet your present life makes him feel what a good choice for you to leave him but what a wrong choice for him to lose you. He may regret to death and be willing to go back to make everything right.
The famous writer John Gary has ever said: Not to be needed is a slow death for a man. Man always loves the feeling that he is making a positive difference in someoneâ€™s life. After making him feel regretful for dumping you, you can pretent to be vulnerable. You can indirectly, by others’ mouths, inform him that you are frustrated in relationship or career maybe. He will spare no effort to help you out of any trouble to prove his ability and to prove he is the only one deserves your trust. Once he feeling is satisfied, he would think you just need more, and he wants to give more as well.
Love from man can be indiscriminate. He always want to make friends with all ex-girlfriends. At that moment, you can just follow his mind to be friends. But just friends. You can share happiness and sorrow with him. That will make him feel he is still indispensable in your life. Don’s push so hard to get back together now because that will make him notice your “scheme”.
Man finds himself so strong and powerful in love. So he misunderstands that he has no difficulty in dealing with a lot of affairs. So when the friendship between you two goes well, you can gradually go furtherâ€”making your relationship more ambiguous. You know he enjoys doing that.
Man is kind of sex-oriented. No offence to men. But you have to admit that a sexy beauty standing in front of him will always make him cannot control his own mind. Sexy lingeries will be fine. Remember just to lurk him but never let him get what he wants.
Man usually thinks he is so clear-headed and justical. When the relationship between you two become ambiguous, he present girlfriend will surely be jealous. You know woman will be unreasonable troublesome when she is jealous. Your name may be rhymed with things by her or called by her. What you should do is to stay innocent to let the man try to protect the fragile one. Then you will win this round.
Man likes smart girls who will be decent in any situation. Even though thereâ€™s a fight between you and his ex-girlfriend, you should be lenient. Donâ€™t blame her for anything and pretent to be smart in dealing with trouble. In this case, he will find that you are Godess. No man doesn’t want to be with Godess.
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Woman is jealous on her face while man is jealous on his mind. You should beauty yourself and make friends with a group of handsome men. This act will totally strain his nerve. He cannot stand you belong to other men. Then you win another round.
Seeing you are so popular with men, he will push you to make a decision. Of course, you choose him because thatâ€™s our purpose. At last, he will think he is really important in your life.
Now, you get himback . What to do next? Just follow your mind. You two love again and you love him right. Or you dump him this time to get revenged. Donâ€™t think the tactices above is dirty. Remember thatâ€™s how the bitch comes along and get him alone. If you donâ€™t want to be stolen from, you have to play the dirty better than her.
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